Affairs

From D P Haynes Will you leave or stay and heal your marriage after an affair? Your decision must be thought through and not just an emotional response to the cheating. You need to go through the painful process of healing, whether you plan to stay together or leave. You need to heal your heart…

From Parthasarathy Rengaswami If your relationship has gone sour for whatever reason, you may like to put it back on the rails. The problem with restoring a relationship is that very often, the restoration turns out to be a quick-fix job that won’t last long. This can happen in many cases irrespective of what caused…

From Katie Lersch Many of the questions that I get from wives who have been cheated on pertain to sex. People worry that their sex life wasn’t “normal” either before or after the affair. They are often looking for reassurance that their feelings, or their experience, is valid. An example is the couple whose marriage…

From Katie Lersch There is a real perception that people who have an affair want to eventually end up together. If both people in the affair are married, there’s an assumption that one day, they will leave their perspective spouses so that they will end up married themselves. This is not always the case though.…

From Darlene Lancer Envy, jealousy, and shame are inextricably intertwined. Envy and jealousy are primal emotions that frequently overlap. They’re commonly first felt in the form of sibling rivalry and oedipal longings. A child innately wants mommy and daddy all to him or herself and feels “excluded” from the marital bond, especially if there have…

From Duane Birth Forgiving and taking your man back after you caught him cheating is one of the most difficult things to do, that is, supposing that he wants to be taken back. Believe it or not, these guys are sometimes relieved to have gotten caught because they want out of a relationship and assume…

From Katie Lersch If I’m being honest, I’m not sure that any of my husband’s excuses for an affair were going to ring true for me, especially at first. When you are dealing with the shock of an affair, you are defensive. You are angry. So when your husband starts will the defenses which indicate…

From D P Haynes It’s not easy figuring out how to win a girl back after cheating on her. You have caused such pain and resentment it’s like no other emotion individuals experience. Your chances of getting her back are raised or lowered depending on how much she cared for you. It’s complicated but I’d…

From D P Haynes I’m confident in saying that you have cheated on and definitely have lied to your spouse at one time or another. Perhaps it was as recent as today. You will probably never admit it because it’s too painful to confront it but when you get busted it’s better to confess it…

From Katie Lersch I sometimes hear from people who are want to save their marriage after infidelity, but who are very concerned that their spouse is not yet “over” the other person – even when their spouse insists that there is nothing left to the cheating relationship. Many men like to claim that the affair…